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You Are Gold

Feb 27, 2025
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G-d instructed Moses to convene a team of superior artisans to lead a team to build the Tabernacle. Though the leaders were superior artisans, anyone could volunteer; one did not need an exceptional pedigree to earn a place on the team. All it took was a required skill set. The same was true for donating material for the Tabernacle. You did not need to be a member of the elite. Everyone was invited to contribute.

Thirteen (some say fifteen) items were needed for the construction project. The Torah lists them, and gold is first on the list. This is somewhat curious, considering that gold was not the most common commodity people owned. Our ancestors left Egypt exceedingly wealthy, but even rich people had more copper and silver than gold.


Though gold was used liberally in the Tabernacle, it was not the most common material in the construction. Many things were gold-plated but made of copper or wood. Undoubtedly, more copper and wood were required than gold, which makes it curious that the Torah lists gold as the first item on the list.

You might think the Torah lists gold first because it is the most expensive; those who gave gold deserve to be lauded at the top of the list. Yet, diamonds were also necessary for the Tabernacle, and though they are more expensive than gold, they appear closer to the bottom of the list.

You Are Gold

My mentor, the Lubavitcher Rebbe, shared a profound perspective on this Shabbat in 1992. This was his last opportunity to lecture on this Torah portion because he suffered a stroke four weeks later, from which he did not recover.

The Rebbe shifted focus from the donation to the donor. The Rebbe pointed out that all Jews, ordinary and extraordinary, men, women, and even children, were invited to contribute to the Tabernacle. You were welcome if you had something to contribute and the will to share it.

The Rebbe asked how an ordinary Jew could build an extraordinary home. The Tabernacle achieved the impossible. The infinitely vast G-d, Who cannot be contained even by the vast Heavens, resided in this finite tent. This was an impossible feat that required a builder who could bridge infinity and finitude. How could an ordinary person accomplish this?

The Rebbe explained that the very basis for this question is misguided. You see, said the Rebbe, there is no such thing as an ordinary Jew. If you ever doubted that this story should convince you that it is so. Every Jew has a spark of G-d—a soul—that resides in a body chosen by G-d to be His people. Every Jew has a spark of an infinite G-d in a finite body. Every Jew bridges this gap. Thus, every Jew could build the Tabernacle. No Jew was too ordinary to pull off this extraordinary feat.

On the surface, the ordinary Jew seems, well, ordinary. But don’t judge a book by its cover. Underneath, every Jew is a treasure. Every Jew is gold. Every Jew can turn his or her corner of the world into a sanctuary for G-d. Every Jew can turn his or her heart into a home for G-d. Every Jew can do the extraordinary.

The Torah lists gold first. Not because gold is most important, but because those who donated it are most important. The Torah wants us to know that though gold might have been scarce in the ordinary Jew’s pocket, it was not extraordinary for a Jew to own gold. Gold is natural to a Jew, for every Jew is golden. Therefore, the first and most natural contribution for a Jew, is gold.

The Pivot Moments

You might not feel golden when you enter a room, and someone triggers you. When colleagues challenge and mock you, you might feel worthless. When your children disrespect and judge you, you might feel empty. But that is just your surface. Know that under the unwashed rag lies a sparkling bar of gold. A child of G-d. A member of the chosen nation. Chosen to shine a light unto these moments of darkness.

You can turn these challenging moments around and use them to grow stronger. You can use them to become more empathetic. You can use them to become more sensitive. You can use them to feel badly for those who torment you most. You can use these moments to show yourself and the world what you are really made of.  These moments were designed to turn you into a leader. You have it in you to make it happen; all you need to do is grab the opportunity handed to you to reveal your inner gold.


What Is This?

A Jew was leaving Russia for Israel after many years of suffering and persecution by the Soviet authorities. When he arrived at the border, the Soviet guard inspected his belongings and found something covered in gauze. “What is this,” he demanded, certain he had found contraband.

“Don’t ask what this is,” replied the Jew, “ask who this is. This is a bust of comrade Joseph Stalin. I owe him everything: my education, my value system, my culture, my beliefs, my sophistication, and I never want to forget my debt to him. When I get to where I am going, I will place this bust on my mantelpiece, and every day when I wake up, I will begin the day by thanking him for all he did for me.”

Taken aback, the guard mused that he always knew these Jews were crazy, but how could he reject this patriotic fervour? He let him go.

When he arrived in Israel, the Israeli guard inspected his belongings and found the gauze-covered bust. “What is this?” he asked. “Don’t ask what this is,” replied the Jew, “ask who this is. This is a bust of comrade Joseph Stalin.” “Stalin,” recoiled the Israeli guard, why would you bring him to this country?”

If you only knew how much he tortured and persecuted us, you would understand why I want to have his bust on my mantelpiece and why I want to begin each day by cursing him and spitting in his face. Well, mused the Israeli guard. All the torture this poor Jew suffered must have gotten to his head. Who am I to judge him? And he let him through.

The old Jewish fellow finally arrived at his daughter’s home and began to unpack. His granddaughter watched with fascination as he unwrapped the bust, and the features became visible. “Who is this?” she asked with delight. “Don’t ask who this is,” replied the wise old man, “ask what this is. This is five kilos of pure gold that I just snuck across two borders . . .”

Every Jew is five kilos of pure gold. And not just five kilos. Every Jew is a treasure. Don’t undervalue yourself.  You are not like everyone else. You are a child of G-d. You have the capacity to change the world for the better. You can tear down the veil and reveal that the world is a beautiful sacred garden. You can make this world holy. You can turn it into G-d’s home.

 

 
 
 

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EREV ROSH HASHONAH

Friday, Sept 11, 2026  

Plag 6:23 pm

Candle Lighting 7:24 pm

 

SHABBAT ROSH HASHANAH DAY 1 Sept 12, 2026

Morning Services 8:30 am

Havdalah 8:36 pm

Candle Lighting from an existing flame, not before 8:23 pm

 

ROSH HASHANAH DAY 2 Sunday September 13, 2026

Morning Services 8:30 am

Tashlich 7:30 pm

Havdalah 8:21 pm

 

 See High Holiday Schedule for service and candle lighting times for chagim

 

 

  Weekly Classes

 Rabbi Lazer teaches weekly classes

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Join us in person on Sunday morning for services at 8:30 am, followed by a short fascinating Talmud class at 9:15 am. The Talmud class is hybrid, in person and on Zoom.

 

Thursday evenings at 8:00 pm for insights and discussions on the weekly Parsha.

 

PLEASE NOTE THE CHANGE OF TIME FOR THE NEXT FEW WEEKS DUE TO THE TIMING OF THE MINYAN FOR MINCAH

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Nava Pundaky for her father, Rachamim Tshuva, 29 Elul (Sept 10-11, Thurs/Fri)

 

Michelle Bottner for her father, Stanley Gold, 29 Elul (Elul Sept 10-11, Thurs/Fri)

Sande Marcus for her father, Hyman Luxenburg (Chayim Yechezkhel ben Shmuel)

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Nella Sverzhinsky for her grandmother, Barkovskaya Chaya Genya, 7 Tishrei, Sept 17-18 Thurs/Fr)

 

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Shlomo and Esther Shabtai parents of Rebbetzin Chani and parents in law of Rabbi Mendel Gurkow in honor of their new grandson.

Daily Minyan   

We are trying to organize minyanim on Sundays, Tuesdays and Thursdays, approximately 20 minutes before sunset. Minyans this week on Sunday and Thursday will be at 7:15 PM.

 

Minyans are announced and recruited via the Minyan Maker Whattsapp group. If you would like to be involved, you can join with this link:

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Weekly Classes

Rabbi Lazer teaches regular weekly classes via Zoom. 

Join us in person on Sunday morning for services at 8:30 AM, followed by a short, fascinating Talmud class at 9:15 am. The Talmud class is hybrid, in person and on Zoom.

Thursday evenings at 8:00 PM for insights and discussions on the weekly Parshah. PLEASE NOTE THE CHANGE OF TIME FOR THE NEXT FEW WEEKS DUE TO THE TIMING OF THE MINYAN FOR MINCAH

Tanya Class for Women 

Rebbetzin Basie leads a 30-minute in-depth class on Tanya, the classic Chassidic work that teaches the inner workings of our mind, heart, and soul. The class will be text-based as we slowly work through this incredible study.  

To be held via Zoom each Tuesday at 7:30 pm. To register, please provide Basie bgurkow@gmail.com with your phone number so she can provide updates about the class.

Pirkei Avos Class for Women

Rebbetzin Basie teaches a class for women on the Ethics of our Fathers, Pirkei Avos, on Shabbat at 5:30 pm. The class is held at the Gurkow family home.

 

 High Holidays Auction

This year we will have a hybrid High Holiday auction. You will be able to post a bid

online, and a live auction will also be held at Shull. Minimum bids for the live auction

will begin at the highest bid received online. In addition, the Aliyah, Hagbah and

Gelilah honors for the first day of Rosh Hashanah will only be available for bidding

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As we run on an honour system, we ask that you make arrangements for your

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A Night of Gratitude and Celebration - Special Anniversary Dinner

 

Sunday, October 25, 2026  6:00 pm   Jewish Community Centre

We invite our members and friends to an anniversary dinner dedicated to expressing our deep appreciation to Rabbi Lazer and Rebbetizin Basie for their valued leadership over the past 25+ years.  Invitations have been emailed, with RSVP for the dinner preferred as soon as possible.  

 

Rosh Chodesh Society for Women

 

The monthly Rosh Chodesh class will resume G- d willing, during the Niagara Shabbaton Nov 13- 15. The cost per person is $450 (two per room). This includes Friday and Saturday night accommodations and all kosher meals/snacks from Friday evening to Sunday breakfast).   Student discount is available.

Please respond to office@bethtefilah.ca and let us know if you are interested in participating and if you have additional questions.

 

Chumash with Rashi Class for Men and Women

A class led by Julie Rubenstein. Explore Judaism’s most fundamental text with the vital commentary of Rabbi Shlomo Yitzchaki (Rashi) in the original Hebrew. Classes are currently on hiatus.

 

Sukkot Carnival, Wednesday, September 29, 4:00 PM

 

A Sukkot Party for Families and Children will be held at Beth Tefilah.

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Monday, September 21

 

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 Simchat Torah Celebration, Dance With The Torah Under the Stars October 3

 

Join us on Saturday evening, October 3, at 7:10 pm for a joyful Simchat Torah celebration. It is the Yahrtzeit of 1200+ martyrs whose lives were cut short on Simchat Torah / October 7th. Let us respond to horror with joy as we dance for those who cannot dance anymore. Delicious dinner buffet; special challenges for children.

 

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